Okay, this is as much as a story, as advice for all you guys out there who are friends with girls younger than you.
Okay, so, I have a ton of guy friends. In fact, most likely more guy friends than girl friends. I can not tell you how many times I have been asked if I was dating one of them, or worse, told that me and my best guy friend would make the cutest couple. Can I just say how annoying that is? Not only for me, but for my guy friends too. No one wants to hear that they would make a cute couple if they aren't dating. Even if one of the two friends are okay, or love the comment, in the end its just awkward, and pretty much ruins the chances of the two ever being a couple. So don't go up to people and tell them that. Just don't. Period. They just might hate you forever. Probably not. But maybe.
Okay, so once, a LONG time ago, I was sitting with two of my closest guy friends, and we were talking about a movie that was coming out. I don't remember what movie it was, but I do remember that I was the one who first brought it up, saying how much I wanted to see it. Then my guy friends agreed, said that it looked like it should be a pretty epic movie and that they also wanted to go see it too. Then one of my friends turned to the other friend, and asked him to go see the movie with him. With me sitting there. And you know who wasn't asked to go to that movie?
Me
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Okay I know I'm a girl, but... why??? If you're talking to two friends about a movie you all want to go see... and then two of the friends ask each other to go see the movie... but not the third person... that's just...I'm pretty sure that's the definition of evil.
So guys, even if you're with a friend that is a girl, and your other guy friend, and it might seem a little weird ask your guy friend and your girl-friend (not girlfriend, girl-friend) to go to the movies, just do it. Cuz if you don't, you just look like a jerk. Even if it would be weird for you, because I guarantee you that that movie would be less awkward than it is at that table is after you only ask one of your friends to the movies.
Well I will remember to invite you along with any guy friends if I am ever in that situation ;)
ReplyDeleteI mean it would've been even better if there was at least one other girl to come, I'm just saying being the opposite gender shouldn't keep friends from inviting other friends to movies. Just saying. :p.
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